Friday, July 18, 2014

Date a Rich Cougar Without Any Commitment



Has there been a moment when you have shattered your commitments?
Well, commitments are hard to preserve.
You never know what would happen in the next moment of your life.
A relationship with your beloved requires commitment.
You may not wish to break it, but you never know the upcoming future.
Backing off your words can sadden your beloved to a great extent.
It may even bring about her emotional breakdown.
Also the guilt feelings deep within your heart can cause a tremendous restlessness and turmoil in your life.
Well, you date a rich cougar, and you have no constraints of commitments.
She is rich and doesn’t require your purse. Nor does she expect any sorts of commitments.
What she desires from you is the piece of pleasurable flesh for a few moments,
and a good quality time of yours.


Breaking the commitment is a heinous act.
It is like killing someone by piercing through the heart without inserting a dagger.
It is an emotional murder. But, it is quite a mutual agreement to date a rich cougar.
She has undergone enough emotional and mental vicissitudes.
She is far experienced and stronger than you, and there is no need to worry about her.
Your mother taught you to walk; the teacher rendered you sex education;
and here is a sex mother in the form of a cougar that would practically guide you
through therapeutic sex sessions and make you a man.
It would be thus greatly beneficial to date a rich cougar.


You needn’t spend a penny to date a rich cougar.
She is self dependent, and she does not have any other intentions, but sex.
If you never peeped into the online platforms,
it would be almost an incredible moment to see all these.
If marriage is a hindrance on the way of a carefree life,
you can have a better world in the form or the online dating sites.
There are many available. No commitments, no obligations, and no any social constraints.
You may date a rich cougar, harvest the sexual pleasure, and put your pants on and walk your way.
Article resource: http://congarconnecting.wordpress.com/

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Why Social Media Is Like Dating (And How to Be a Hot Date)

I was briefly a dating coach, and have been noticing the similarities between good practices for dating and social media. Read on for tips to help your social media presence by becoming a better online "date."

1. First Impressions
If you walked up to a lady dressed in sweats and sneakers for your first date at a fancy restaurant, you probably wouldn't be particularly impressed. It isn't necessarily about being shallow or looks-obsessed; it simply indicates that even on date number one, in which she is putting her best foot forward, she seems a bit disheveled. The same goes for your social media presence. Those descriptions/about pages/profiles? Fill them out IMMEDIATELY. Get some sort of profile picture, even if it's just a placeholder, up as soon as you join. Nobody is going to follow/like/take an interest in a profile that has a boring bio and the default picture. So, spruce yourself up a little for the first impression! Create a custom background for your Twitter page, and make a nice cover photo for Facebook.

2. Good Listeners Get All the Play
Being a good listener is actually just important for life in general. It becomes especially important when you want to establish actual two-way relationships with your social communities. Watch for trending topics and join in the conversation. Someone says they're having a bad day? Ask them what's going on. Twitter is an excellent example of how to make yourself a good date through engaging conversation. So many accounts tweet 24/7, but rarely pause to respond to mentions, retweet other accounts, or engage with any tweets in their stream. This is the equivalent of talking solely about yourself all night without so much as asking your date where she's from. Luckily, this is super easy to remedy. Just take a genuine interest in your fans and followers, and extend to them the same level of human compassion that you would to somebody you met in person.

4. Ms. Manners
A little courtesy goes a long way on a date, and on the internet, it practically makes you look like a saint. This should probably go without saying, but play nice. See some drama happening? Do your best to stay out of it. It's fine to disagree with people, of course, but there's a way to do it that doesn't make you look like a 13-year-old, I promise. It really does make you look unprofessional and unlikable if you are constantly engaging in flame wars. If someone is truly upsetting you, spouting bigotry, or otherwise making you uncomfortable, use that block button and move on. Sweet people on the internet are rare enough that they stand out and shine.

5. Keep it Short and Sweet
Ever have a date that just drags on and on? This is why the optimal first date is coffee, and the most successful posts tend to be short and to the point. There are definitely exceptions to this; Google Plus, for instance, favors in-depth and comprehensive text posts. But on the whole, the easier it is to digest, the more attention it will garner. There's a reason that short form social media has taken off in recent years (Twitter, Vine, Tumblr, Pinterest). Don't be that guy who spends three hours yammering on about his exciting new project at work while his date slowly backs away. Just don't.

6. Play the Field
Why stick with just one (or two or three ... ) social platforms, when there is a whole host of them just waiting to be explored? Don't be afraid to play around and experiment with your social sites. You wouldn't get married after just one date, right? ... Right? So don't tie yourself down to one platform just because you're used to it.

7. Size Matters Less than You Think
It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean. It's not the amount of followers that counts, but how you're engaging with them. I know people with over 100k followers on Twitter who get almost zero actual interaction with their multitude of "fans." There's a common misconception in social media marketing that the best thing for every account is to grow followers. While this is true to a certain extent, since you don't want to be posting statuses for nobody to see, it's arguably more important to form relationships with your current audience than to constantly grow it. After all, even if a million people like your Facebook page, if they all skip over your statuses without so much as a quick read, you aren't actually spreading your message to anyone.

8. Looks Do Matter (at Least a Little)
No, not your looks, silly. Visual content is consistently shared more than any other form, and also tends to elicit more emotion than text alone. Part of the reason for this is that they require far less time to process than, say, a wall of text. People like to instantly "get" something. Try sharing some pictures, either original content or found online, and I can promise you'll see an increase in engagement.
Article Resource: http://www.socialmediatoday.com/content/why-social-media-dating-and-how-be-hot-date

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The 9 Most Awkward Moments While Having Sex with Your Sugar Daddy

When it comes right down to it, no one is immune to awkward moments while having sex, regardless of whether you’re into sugar daddy dating or you’re in a more traditional relationship. It’s inevitable that you and your sugar daddy (or future sugar daddy) are going to experience awkward moments while having sex, but the important thing is how you deal with them.

He’s…small: Your sugar daddy is rich, refined, cultured, and attentive…but when you saw it in all its glory for the first time, you were a wee bit disappointed. The solution isn’t what to do, but rather what not to do. Don’t be critical and keep your facial expressions in check. What should you do? Coo a little bit, grab him like you mean it, kiss him on the lips, and give him the ride of his life.
Passing gas: Did you know everyone passes gas roughly 15 to 25 times a day? Yes, even you. And the friction from having sex can increase gas. You know what else the friction of sex can do? Trap gas inside your nether region. That can lead to a noise that sounds a lot like passing gas. No matter where it comes from, it’s totally common. Depending on what kind of personalities you and your sugar daddy are, you can either ignore it or giggle about it. But there’s no reason to dwell on it or have it ruin the rhythm of the night (or day).
He can’t get it up: It can happen to almost anyone, really! Studies show that as many as 52% of men experience erectile dysfunction, including 40% of men aged 40 and 70% of men aged 70, which are prime sugar daddy years. So if your sugar daddy is getting up there in age, chances are good you’ll run into this scenario now and again. But it might have nothing to do with his age though. Other culprits could be alcohol, tiredness, nerves or stress, and medication—it might even be psychological. Instead of focusing on it or getting annoyed, switch gears; his package isn’t a light switch and changing your position or pace might do the trick. Maybe indulge in a little more foreplay, kiss, spoon naked, or snuggle. If it still isn’t happening and your sugar daddy gets discouraged, you could always talk about it—see if there’s anything the two of you can do together to make it better.
Your juices won’t flow: There are going to be times when it might take a little longer for you to be ready to do the deed with your sugar daddy, which can be painful. Whether you’re taking medication, not in the mood, or the foreplay is terrible, being too dry doesn’t necessarily have to mean no sex. A little dab of lubrication can go a long way. Make it part of the fun by letting your sugar daddy watch you apply it, or let him do it for you.
Aunt Flow comes to town early: Your body is tricky and while you like to think it works like clockwork, sometimes it doesn’t. If you get your period early, don’t freak out; it happens. You can move the action into the shower, but if you’re really not comfortable getting close when it’s that time of the month, there are other ways to be intimate. Give him a special treat down there, or cuddle—studies have shown that intimate gestures like cuddling and kissing actually improve relationship satisfaction.
Saying the wrong name: You’re having great sex with your sugar daddy, your hands are all over each other, and his moves are amazing. And then you moan the wrong name into his ear. It can happen. And more often than not, it’s probably a simple mistake. Even in our most bored, sober moments we can call our pets, friends, and kids by the wrong names. When you’re having sex, your senses can be overly stimulated and you’re more apt to speak without stopping to think. You can play dumb by saying something like, “Really? Did I?” or tell him you were overcome with passion and it was a fantasy laden slip of the tongue. Then remind him how much you really like him. If he has a really good sense of humor, ask him if he’d rather you were in bed with another man moaning his name? If your sugar daddy is the one saying the wrong name during sex, give him a chance to explain before freaking out. You can usually tell by his reaction whether or not his explanation is genuine or just a cover-up.
It’s not your thing: Just because you’re the sugar baby and he’s the sugar daddy, it doesn’t mean that he can dictate what goes on in the bedroom. You have boundaries too, and there’s a good chance his fantasy might not be your fantasy. After all, research shows male sexual fantasies tend to be more adventurous and impersonal, while female sexual fantasies are more centered on their partner. Ultimately however, you both want the same thing, pleasure. And this is where your skills as a sexual negotiator shine. Instead of shutting his idea down outright, find adventurous elements that turn both of you on.
No, not yet: Your sugar daddy might be a sex god, but even a deity can have an off night. Don’t believe us? Just Google premature ejaculation; you’ll see over 2,000,000 hits in about 0.27 seconds. It seems like there are a lot of men out there who want to last longer between the sheets. The point is that it’s common. Admittedly, you can only take his premature ejaculation as a compliment for so long. Then what? This is one situation where giggling won’t help. Fortunately, there are an almost limitless number of other ways he can give you orgasms. If the problem persists, it might be best to acknowledge the issue and deal with it. The little blue pill might seem like a natural solution, but there are others. You could try a condom that contains the desensitizing lubricant benzocaine, or maybe double up the ultra-sensitive condoms. Change the pace and vary the speed and depth. Deep breathing exercises also help, as well as enjoying concentrating on the experience instead of just the climactic finish and dismount.
Talking dirty: There’s a time and place for quiet, romantic sex and then there’s a time and place for wild, mind-blowing sex complete with dirty talk. The former needs no introduction; the latter might need some help. What happens when you want to spice up the bedroom banter with dirty talk and the only thing your sugar daddy comes up with is, “Open Sesame?” Talking dirty is an art form; it’s not about using random, generic phrases—it’s about turning your partner on, and it doesn’t even have to be super sexual, at least not at first. Sometimes, the most subtle phrases can build sexual tension. For example, instead of “open sesame,” he could say, “I’ve got a big surprise for you.” Or ask him to describe in detail what he loves about you in bed. Since dirty talk is about turning each other on, it will evolve the more you get to know each other.  Start slow and eventually his words will make your knees weak, your eyes roll, and your toes flare.
What do you think: What’s the most awkward thing that’s happened to you or your sugar daddy during sex?
Sources:
Lakin, M., et al., “Erectile Dysfunction,” Cleveland Clinic Center for Continuing Education web site; http://goo.gl/SJJgi1, last accessed June 27, 2014.
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Wednesday, July 9, 2014

The Science of Cougar Sex: Why Older Women Lust

Men who cheat on their spouses have always enjoyed an expedient explanation: Evolution made me do it. Many articles (here is one, and here is another), especially in recent years, have explored the theory that men sleep around because evolution has programmed them to seek fertile (and, conveniently, younger) wombs.
Frederic Cirou / Es Photography / Corbis
But what about women? If it's really true that evolution can cause a man to risk his marriage, what effect does that have on women's sexuality?
A new journal article suggests that evolutionary forces also push women to be more sexual, although in unexpected ways. University of Texas psychologist David Buss wrote the article, which appears in the July issue of Personality and Individual Differences, with the help of three graduate students, Judith Easton (who is listed as lead author), Jaime Confer and Cari Goetz. Buss, Easton and their colleagues found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women. Women ages 27 through 45 report not only having more sexual fantasies (and more intense sexual fantasies) than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period. And they are more willing than younger women to have casual sex, even one-night stands. In other words, despite the girls-gone-wild image of promiscuous college women, it is women in their middle years who are America's most sexually industrious.
By contrast, men's sexual interest and output, usually measured by a reported number of orgasms per week, peaks in the teen years and then settles to a steady level (an average of three orgasms per week) for most of their lives. As I pointed out in March, most men remain sexually active into their 70s. According to the new study, as well as the study I wrote about in March, women's sexual ardor declines precipitously after menopause.
Why would women be more sexually active in their middle years than in their teens and 20s? Buss and his students say evolution has encouraged women to be more sexually active as their fertility begins to decline and as menopause approaches.
Here's how their theory works:
Our female ancestors grew accustomed to watching many of their children — perhaps as many as half — die of various diseases, starvation, warfare and so on before being able to have kids of their own. This trauma left a psychological imprint to bear as many children as possible. Becoming pregnant is much easier for women and girls in their teens and early 20s — so much easier that they need not spend much time having sex.
However, after the mid-20s, the lizard-brain impulse to have more kids faces a stark reality: it's harder and harder to get pregnant as a woman's remaining eggs age. And so women in their middle years respond by seeking more and more sex.
To test this theory, Buss and his students asked 827 women to complete questionnaires about their sexual habits. And, indeed, they found that women who had passed their peak fertility years but not quite reached menopause were the most sexually active. This age group — 27 through 45 — reported having significantly more sex than the two other age groups in the study, 18 through 26 and 46 and up. Women in their middle years were also more likely than the younger women to fantasize about someone other than their current partner. The new findings are consistent with those of an earlier Buss paper, from 2002, which found that women in their early 30s feel more lustful and report less abstinence than women in other age groups. In both studies, these findings held true for both partnered and single women, meaning that married women in their 30s and early 40s tend to have more sex than married women in their early 20s; ditto for single women. Also, whether the women were mothers didn't matter. Only age had a strong affect on women's reported sexual interest and behavior.
And yet there are a few flaws with the data in the new paper. Chiefly: some three-quarters of the participants in the study were recruited on Craigslist, a website where many go to seek hookups, meaning there was a self-selection problem with the sample. (The other participants were students at the University of Texas in Austin.) The authors also note that there are some alternative explanations for why women in their 30s and early 40s might be more sexual. Many of them may simply be more comfortable with sex than women in their teens and early 20s. Still, that raises the question of why they are more comfortable: perhaps evolution programmed that comfort.
Buss is the author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating, now in its fourth edition, and has become associated with evolutionary explanations for sexual behavior. His theories help explain why men can be cads — and why women can be cougars.
Article Resource: http://content.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,2007422,00.html

Sunday, July 6, 2014

How do I talk to a girl who is very conservative and doesn't want to talk to strangers?


Most guys do all the right things like dressing smartly, look cool, wear fantastic cologne and yet when it comes to talking to girls they start trembling in their pants and abandon the project. The reason is that they fear if they open their mouths the beans will be spilled. If you are facing a similar situation then read these seven tips.

Approach her without hesitation
When you walk towards her or approach her do it confidently without a hint of hesitation. A woman will sense a hidden agenda from a mile and it will also show in your gait.

Short list the topics you will speak on
If you are going to talk to the girl for the very first time then make a list of topics that you want the conversation to head to. Tactfully steer the conversation to the topic as you are well prepared. The key here is to decide on "happy topics" and not on the economic downturn or the unemployment rate these are depressing issues and ruin the mood.

Pause
A conversation is good when both the participants have an equal opportunity to voice their opinion. A dialogue and not monologue is what women like. It also gives you time off when all you have to do is listen.

Connect with the speaker
When talking to girl if you sense that she is showing her disinterest then change the topic or ask her opinion and go with the flow. You have to establish a connection with her and once you do that your fear will vanish.

Keep it simple
You don't have to impress the girl with your vocabulary. What you need to say can be said in a straight forward manner without the use of big words that your listener does not understand. This will keep her interest alive.

Discuss everyday issues
When you meet her and talk try and talk of the everyday issues like the new releases, the top ten on music charts or something similar without going into the details. Issues like climate change or war on terror are a strict no - no.

Talk like you would with a guy
If you have no hidden agenda like asking her out, or obtaining her phone number it would ease your tension. Keep it for later. Just go and talk, the worst that can happen is she will say sorry and move on. What's the big deal in rejection, everybody gets rejected sometime or the other.

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Friday, July 4, 2014

How to Seduce an Older Woman Direction

So you'd like to attract cougars perfect? Well here people go. 

 There is a difference between attracting an adult woman and some younger woman, it's a extreme point to know the significant difference, some guys attract both in natural ways, we are going to tell you how to be that chap. 




 There's something usually key. When you make effort to attract a woman, this is important that can ultimately end up in attracting the lady, and can interest initial interest. Someone that normally looks confident, is really confident, and therefore acts with more confidence. 

 It's something you want to look out for naturally! It is critical, dressing is the primary part with regards to physical attraction commencing today! 



 You want to make sure that you are getting her feel younger again! This is actually another point, tons of people are unsure the situation behind this. Just remember they are older women. If you bring your current youthful energy into her life, she'll be more attractive to you. The only kind of people who want to be seen as old are small kids, so if you are aware of that you make your ex feel young, she's going to want you more correctly! 



 An item you ultimately want to do is to be sure that you use the whole body language completely. Think about the application. A younger man is sick and tired of the games, the younger women play as well as wants a certainly no nonsense mature partner. And mature women loves the youthful energy that is definitely brought to your table, she knows every one of the "male secrets" so she may easily be a breath of ticket. The young man are likewise very physically attractive and drawn to the older lovely women! 

 May possibly interviewed tons of men within this matter, and they said the most wonderful moments of their particular lives were right after they were with a mature woman! 




 This is the right answer to many questions that people ask! Are these relationships info on sex or can there be more to them? Well if you are affected by it, the actual physical attraction is exactly where it starts from. It is just like any other relationship, it may be heated at first because the age gap plus the two coming alongside one another. 

 The truth is, it depends the relating couple, I've seen many people with age gaps actually adore each other, so it's not usually all sexual. Cougar women have become very selective and vice versa together with the younger men. They'll not jump on the initial attractive person which strolls their process, they have of having more than just a very high libido. 

 May well, there are literally more younger men seeking older women as compared to vice versa, because everybody wishes date the "hot mom" or even the "hot mature lady". 
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We can realize many things from this kind of relationship! There are many stereotypes and assumptions that has to be disproved! "Cougar" romantic relationships, I think, shouldn't need a label, as there's nothing wrong with these types of relationships. You want to be sure that you learn what is happening!

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Rich cougar women's desires

why older women would date young men is to be able to feel youthful again. Cougar women do not like to get old,especially the rich cougar women. They really want men to cherish them and ensure that she feels special. Age is however obvious. This is why cougars rather go for young companions that are spontaneous and have the energy to relieve the youthful days. In fact, the aging woman is stated to have more vigor and charm that men younger than them fall week in their knees.

The sugar mommy really wants the man to match her desires and satisfy her companionship cravings. She would love to find her man giving time to her and ensuring that he fits well into her routine. Such women are rather busy having attained recognition in society and hence may be more involved in their work and careers. The young man needs to realize such an aspect and make his schedule flexible so that it does not conflict with hers.