Speaking of Kim Kardashian, Kanye West’s wedding, i have seen the photos, god, it’s beautiful. Top off my head, i was thinking everyone should get married when they find the true love to spend their rest of life.Of course you gotta date someone first., so, let’s go to my article.
In a different post I talked to you about the fact that the woman you're trying to attract needs to know that you're going to protect her and those older guys can do a great job with that.
I mentioned to you that in order to show your strength to women you have to be decisive, have practical knowledge, you have to be able to take charge when people are confused and you absolutely can't be a wussy.
Essentially, you have to be a man among men. Not just some Joe Sch moe that could be lost in a crowd or easily forgotten.
Strength doesn't necessarily mean what you get from pumping iron in a gym. Muscles may make you attractive or physically strong, but this only shows a tiny part of the picture that women will use to decide if they are interested in you or not.
Well, today I'll tell you about a few more strength indicators that will get almost any woman out there crazy about you. Older men dating younger women already know about this and use it every day, but If you apply what I'll share with you now, you won't have any trouble getting any girl hot for you.
You won't have to step foot in a gym to get a girl interested in you - though you should!
So, with that said, let's roll.
1. Be a good talker.
This one is very important. Why? Because if you want her to see you're powerful, you need to be able to influence people effectively and for that, you need to be able to talk to people in such a way that they listen to you and become involved.
If you're able to get people to follow you, a woman is going to automatically assume you're powerful which is a great thing because she'll be able to witness how you interact with people.
There's some benefit to being the infamous "strong and silent type," and you can employ that if you want to make yourself seem more mysterious. However, be careful with how "silent" you are because you can come off as shy or a bad communicator. Read the signals the girl sends to track how you're doing and adjust to what you see.
You want to be intriguing and powerful but not a dud or shy seeming or you'll not keep her interest for long.
2. Be good at story telling.
People crave a good story. They spend tons and tons of money each and every day because they want to be sucked into stories. Movies, TV series, audio tapes, books, pamphlets, booklets, anything they can lose themselves in to take away the everyday pressures.
Storytelling is a great skill to have and it's relatively easy to learn. The great thing about it is that the more you practice, the easier it is going to be for you and the better stories you'll be able to tell.
Have a few great stories in your back pocket.
Sit back and think about those exciting times in your life that really stand out. Maybe some times in your life where things were a little risky and dangerous. Maybe you took part in some kind of an adventure. Maybe...
...you know what I mean.
This is another area where older men dating younger women will do great. They have a ton of stories to share. If you're young, however, it's still just fine.
You just need something to get the conversation going and that you can tell comfortably and be at ease when you're doing it.
Funny is always best, but a story with a hook in it that a woman can really sink her teeth into will be appealing. Open up just a little and talk about something personal.
Tell stories about your friends to show that you're a social guy who has plenty of people, that like to be around. You want your friends to come off well, generally speaking, so you look like you have good taste in people as well.
You can tell a story that pokes fun at you a little, but be careful not to seem too goofy. You want to have an air of mystery about you and a story telling her how you acted dumb in a situation would break that air.
Find out what she's interested in and see if you have any stories that match up. She'll be even more drawn in if you have similar interests and you're able to talk about them.
Do you do or like something obscure? Talk about that, if it's cool enough and can sustain a good story.
Stories are great for demonstrating high value, but you need to imply it more than outright brag about it. As many older men dating younger women know, bragging turns most girls off and seems fake a lot of the time.
You want to seem real and genuine and a great catch, not someone who appears to be telling stories for the sake of storytelling.
Practice your storytelling if you feel like you aren't very good at it. It needs to flow and be natural, not full of stuttering or moments where you forget important parts. Get it straight in your head before it comes out of your mouth. If you need to, tell it out loud so you get comfortable with it.
3. Be awesome.
No matter what you decided to do in your life, strive to be excellent at it. You can be a construction worker, an accountant, a lawyer or a doctor. You can be anything you want, just be great at it.
If it's not your work you want to focus on, then try to excel at your hobby. No matter what it is, just do what's in your power to know everything there's to know about it.
When you do, you'll be naturally interesting to women which will make everything much, much easier for you.
Again, bragging is unattractive.
Demonstrating high value is great, and it can boost a woman's interest in you like crazy, but there is a line between doing it effectively and just babbling about yourself.
Coming right out and saying "I was made employee of the year" or something like that is just plain dumb, unless you do it in a way that's cool and relaxed.
If she's asking about your work, you can probably slip that in somehow but it's not something you want to just lay out there as is.
If you've got a buddy with you, that may be easier. Just have him do all the bragging for you.
Don't blurt out things you think will impress somebody. Use subtlety to get across the fact that you're a great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have your attention. Older men dating younger women are great at that, because as you're older, you seem to be automatically more attractive to women especially the younger ones.
Mature men have the stability and peace about them that women are automatically drawn to.
OK. Moving on...
4. Don't worry about losing that girl.
The last thing you want is to come off as someone who's desperate to get that girl you're talking to.
No matter what, there are many more girls in the world than you can possibly handle, so...
...just don't worry about it and have fun. Life's better that way!
It bears repeating that any girl who turns you down should be used as a learning experience. On one hand, you want to shrug it off because it's not a big deal, but on the other, take it to heart. Learn and figure out what went wrong. Don't do it again. Relax, enjoy yourself, and project that aura of confidence you need.
There you go. Again, keep these pointers in mind and you'll find yourself extremely effective with the ladies. It doesn't matter if you're one of the older dating younger women, or not. If you apply what I told you in your pickup, you'll do great!
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